Tucking & Lingerie: Your Questions Answered

Finding lingerie that fits, boosts your confidence, and makes you feel fabulous is essential for everyone. But for those who need to tuck, it can feel like an even bigger challenge. 

For our trans and non-binary customers, you are likely familiar with the challenges of tucking and locating quality lingerie, which can often make exploring the lingerie world feel daunting. 

At Gaff and Go, our mission is to create high-quality, gender-affirming garments that help you feel secure and celebrated in your body, as everyone should. Underwear designed specifically for the trans woman. 

We get it. Whether you’re new to this aspect of fashion or you have experience, tucking and finding lingerie that fits your style and your body isn’t always straightforward and comes with challenges.

If you're exploring safe tucking methods, looking for the ideal gaff, or seeking lingerie that combines support with style, we have all the information you need. We'll simplify everything so you can confidently express yourself in your own way.

Let’s jump right in.

 

What is Tucking?

Tucking is the art of repositioning or concealing your genitals to minimise their appearance and create a smoother finish- and yes, we will refer to it as an art because any of you out there who have tucked in the past will know that it requires a mastery of technique and a certain level of commitment. 

When wearing tucking underwear, the testes are tucked into the inguinal canals, and the shaft of the penis is pulled towards the back of the body between the legs, creating a smooth appearance. 

Why Do People Tuck?

Everyone who tucks has different motivations, but the most common reason is to help people align their physical presentation with how they feel inside and their gender identity. 

To those who have never tucked or struggled with their gender identity, it may be difficult to identify the need for tucking, but for many, it can be gender-affirming and make them feel better in their bodies.

This is especially true for those assigned male at birth, providing a solution that allows them to mask a part of their body that can cause a lot of dysphoria and discomfort. At Gaff and Go, we provide a variety of tucking underwear that merges style with functionality, enabling transgender individuals to feel at ease in their bodies. 

Tucking is also a common practice in the drag community. Drag queens will tuck to create a smoother appearance that complements their outfits and makes a more aesthetically pleasing appearance. 

It can be difficult to do high kicks and turns in a mini-skirt with additional parts getting in the way, so many queens turn to tucking.

 

How Should Tucking Look?

Again, the perfect tuck depends on the person. Some prefer the area to be completely smooth, while others find minimising the bulge good enough. 

If you want to minimise the area as much as possible, wearing secure gaffs and supportive underwear can help to smooth it completely. 

It is important to note that learning how to tuck in a comfortable and safe way can be a journey, so don’t worry too much about getting it completely smooth on your first attempt; the skill comes with practice.

 

Tucking Safely – How to Tuck Using a Gaff

Before you rush into tucking, it's essential to ensure that you know how to do it properly. Poor tucking can lead to pain and even testicular torsion, neither of which you want to experience. 

Begin by thoroughly cleaning and drying the area to avoid irritation and stop pain. If you're tucking for the first time, it can be beneficial to practice in a quiet, private environment.

To tuck safely, you need to use two or three fingers to tuck each testicle up into each corresponding inguinal canal, being careful not to push too hard or tuck too high. 

If you want it to be as smooth as possible, you may choose to tuck the penis up between your legs towards the back of your body. Some people find it easier to achieve this by lying down as they do it, so if you struggle, this may be the best solution.

This can then be held in place with tucking tape or underwear. 

How Long Can You Tuck For?

When you first start tucking, you should only do it for an hour at a time to give yourself the chance to adjust to the sensation and figure out the tucking methods that work best for you.

Generally, it is recommended that you only tuck for a maximum of 8 hours at a time. If you have ever wondered if you can tuck overnight, avoiding this is generally recommended, as you may be exposed to discomfort and even irritation.

Remember, when tucking, you should always listen to your body. If you experience any pain or discomfort, untuck immediately and give your body the rest it needs. 

We know that gender dysphoria can be overwhelming, but your health should always be your priority, so don’t be tempted to tuck for longer than necessary. 

If you want a smoother look for an extended time, we suggest using some wide gaffs instead of, or in partnership with, tucking. These gaffs can help keep things smooth without the need for teste tucking, allowing you to feel more confident—safely. These gaffs can also be used when you are tucking to keep your tuck more secure.

What Should You Use to Tuck? 

For anyone new to tucking, read this carefully- do not use duct tape. Not only can duct tape leave your skin irritated and uncomfortable, but it can also leave sticky, annoying residue that will only provide further inconvenience. 

You can use a combination or even one of the following options to achieve a perfect tuck; 

• Tucking tape

• Gaffs

• Tucking briefs 

Tucking tape is a popular option for anyone looking for a strong and secure solution that lasts all day. It is effective at holding everything in place and, thankfully, leaves no sticky residue. 

Want your look to be as smooth as possible? Pair your tucking tape with good tucking gaffs for a seamless look.

 

How to Use a Gaff for Tucking

Some people choose to stop their tucking process with tape, but we find that tape may not provide the hold that you’re looking for if you have a long and busy day ahead of you. Being active and sweating can break down the integrity of the glue, making the tuck insecure and vulnerable to failure. 

Using a gaff can add an extra layer of security, putting your mind at ease when enjoying your day with a full tuck. To use a gaff, follow the usual method for tucking that we have described, ensuring that you are led down for the best results and then use a pair of gaff underwear to hold it in place. 

At Gaff and Go, we spent too many years seeing the poor selection of gaffs that transgender girls and non-binary people could access, so we are proud to say that we provide a selection of comfortable and attractive gaffs for all occasions. 

Gender affirmation shouldn’t come at the expense of feeling comfortable and sexy; with our line of gaffs, it doesn’t have to. 

We know the struggle of finding gaffs that leave you feeling both comfortable and sexy, which is why we are proud to share our newest line of gaffs. Our Victoria Gaffs come with all the added comfort and support of your standard gaff, paired with a more flattering V shape front piece. These gaffs show that comfort, sexiness and support can go hand in hand.

 

Finding The Right Tucking Gaff

Finding the right tucking gaff for you is not dissimilar to finding a comfortable pair of everyday underwear. Before even thinking about how to use a gaff for tucking, you need to decide which gaff will work best for you. 

Remember, no two people are built the same, so what might work for others may not work for you - and vice versa. Don’t be afraid to try out a few styles and see what works best for you and your style.

 

Finding The Perfect Tucking Garments

Never selected tucking garments before? Wondering what kind of clothing looks best on trans women? Don’t worry, we have your back.

Choosing The Right Fit For You

Before you make any purchases, you should know your size. You can purchase your own gaffs, from custom fit to pre-made sizes.  

To know your size, you need to use a tape measure to measure around your waist- just above the hips. Then, you need to get a hip measurement using the two numbers you have collected to refer to a sizing chart. 

Depending on the business, you may need to size up or down. While you are initially experimenting and finding where to buy tucking gaff underwear, we suggest you work with a brand that provides gaffs that are true to size, such as Gaff and Go.

 

Styles of Tucking Garments

There are a lot of styles to choose from when selecting a gaff; these may include: 

• A Classic Tucking Thong: This gaff provides a seamless look. Though it has minimal coverage, it still provides enough compression to keep everything in place. 

• Everyday Tucking Briefs: This gaff is brilliant for everyday use. It provides full coverage and soft stretch material that keeps everything in place without digging in. 

• High-Waisted Gaff Shorts: If you’re looking for a smoothing and sculpted silhouette, providing added compression for a snug and streamlined fit. 

• Swim-Ready Tucking Bottoms: Everyone has the right to jump into a pool at a moment’s notice. With these gaffs, you can remain secure and confident; these quick-drying gaffs are brilliant. 

Though different brands offer an array of different styles, these are the most common styles ready for purchase.

 

Garments Made to be Shown Off

Sure, gaffs are supposed to be practical and secure, but what about those times when you want to strip down?

In the past, trans women and non-binary babes were subject to unsightly options that didn’t exactly exude sex appeal, but now you have access to beautiful lingerie that still provides that much-needed support.

A good tuck does not need to come at the expense of feeling sexy, and at Gaff and Go; we want all of our customers to feel empowered and beautiful when they step out wearing our sexy tucking lingerie.

We are all too familiar with the feeling of sacrificing beauty for gender affirmation, but that no longer has to be the case.

 

Garments That Offer Cover

At Gaff and Go, we have a selection of gaffs perfect for any scenario. Want to feel more secure across your midriff while still getting all the power of a good tuck? Take a look at our high-waist gaffs. 

We all have those days when we feel bloated and want a bit of coverage to make us feel more secure and confident in our bodies, so high-waisted briefs are your best friend on those days.

 

The Importance of Gender Affirming Lingerie

Through this guide, we hope to have provided you with more information about the wonderful world of tucking. We know the idea of tucking might be intimidating to anyone who hasn’t done it before, but we hope this blog has given you the knowledge to take steps forward without fear.

Want to learn more about the gaffs available to you? Take a look at all the beautiful garments we have to offer.